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Helping Children Cope With Grief

by Alan Wolfelt

Book Details

Publisher:Routledge
Published:2013-08-21
Pages:193
Format:BOOK
Language:en

Reading Info

Age Range:4-8

About This Book

First published in 1984. A common myth is that that young children (say around three years of age) do not understand death or give the death of friend, pet, brother, sister, parent, grandparent, other relative, or give it a Raggedy-Ann doll meaning. However, research has indicated that they do. If it is difficult for us to think about our death, it is the author’s hypothesis that to think of the death of our children is an even greater difficulty. We dread the thought of our children suffering p

Our Review

This compassionate guide offers parents and caregivers a thoughtful framework for supporting young children through the grieving process, addressing the loss of pets, family members, and even beloved toys. Wolfelt gently dismantles the common misconception that preschoolers are too young to comprehend death, presenting research-backed insights into how children as young as three or four assign meaning to loss. The book provides practical strategies for discussing difficult topics, validating a child's emotions, and creating a safe space for their questions and sorrow. It acknowledges the profound challenge adults face when guiding little ones through pain while managing their own grief.

What distinguishes this resource is its dual focus on both the child's developmental understanding and the parent's emotional hurdles, making it particularly valuable for families navigating their first significant loss together. The author's reassuring tone helps caregivers move past their own discomfort to provide the steady presence children need during turbulent times. By offering age-appropriate language and concrete activities, it transforms abstract concepts of mortality into manageable conversations for young minds. This book ultimately serves as a gentle companion for fostering resilience and emotional health in the face of life's most difficult transitions.

Themes

Psychology

Subjects

Psychology