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How to Explain Death, Loss, and Grief to Children

by Judy Helm Wright

Book Details

Publisher:Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
Published:2015-05-22
Pages:136
Format:BOOK
Language:en

Reading Info

Age Range:4-8

About This Book

Many people in Western cultures are uncomfortable using the words: dead, death, or dying. Instead, the event is described using euphuisms: passing over, passed away, transitioned to the other side, even gone to sleep and won't wake up. Children, who may have seen bugs die, or dead birds, or may have even buried a pet, really have no frame of reference for "passing away." Children need to be given information about the death, in a caring and calm manner, according to their age and understanding.

Our Review

This gentle guide offers parents and caregivers clear, age-appropriate language for discussing the difficult topics of death, loss, and grief with young children. It directly addresses the common tendency to use confusing euphemisms like "passed away" or "gone to sleep," which can be misleading or frightening for a child's literal mind. The book provides a compassionate framework for explaining the finality of death in a way that aligns with a child's own experiences, such as observing dead insects or the loss of a family pet. It empowers adults to have these crucial conversations with honesty and care, building a foundation of understanding.

What makes this resource particularly valuable is its developmental approach, offering strategies tailored to a child's specific age and level of comprehension. It serves as an essential tool for any adult—parent, grandparent, or educator—navigating a child's first encounter with mortality, whether due to a family death or a classroom pet. By advocating for direct yet gentle communication, this book helps demystify a profound life experience and supports a child's healthy emotional processing. It ultimately fosters a sense of security and provides the simple, truthful answers that children need during a time of confusion and sadness.

Themes

Children and death

Subjects

Children and death