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I'M NOT TRYING TO BE DIFFICULT

by accompanying his father, a liquor inspector who “would make a buck on the side by taking a restaurant’s application from the bottom of the pile and moving it to the top” and dined free to boot at storied places like Dubrow’s Cafeteria and Paul \u0026amp\u003B Jimmy’s. Lacking the money and the academic record to go to a top\u002Dflight hotel school in Europe, he enrolled at Cornell—but not before logging time at a McDonald’s, of which he writes, “To this day, it’s one of the greatest gigs I’ve ever had.” Other great gigs followed, from waiting tables on a Scandinavian cruise ship to founding the legendary Nobu chain of restaurants. Along the way, very much in the spirit of Anthony Bourdain (albeit with fewer hangovers and parallel lines), Nieporent dishes out secrets of the trade: If you have a small kitchen, then have a small menu, which allows you to “control food costs, prep work, and the timing of cooking and service”\u003B don’t ask a customer whether everything is all right, which “implies that something might be wrong”\u003B don’t do a deal with Donald Trump (“I could barely get a word in edgewise”)\u003B and, above all, “Just do your job, and do it well.” A bonus in this lively memoir, which pairs well with a robust red or an egg cream, is some well\u002Dplaced name\u002Ddropping, with the likes of Robin Williams, Ruth Reichl, partner Robert De Niro, Bruce Springsteen, and Spike Lee popping up at turns. The takeaways are many, but perhaps the most memorable is one that anyone who’s worked on the line will know: If you’re in the restaurant business, your life is not your own."

Book Details

Publisher:Of
Published:2024-01-01
Format:paperback
Language:English
ISBN:9781538765

Reading Info

Age Range:12-18

About This Book

This candid exploration of adolescent identity and family dynamics follows a young protagonist navigating the turbulent waters of growing up while feeling constantly misunderstood by the adults in th...

Our Review

This candid exploration of adolescent identity and family dynamics follows a young protagonist navigating the turbulent waters of growing up while feeling constantly misunderstood by the adults in their life. The narrative captures the authentic voice of youth struggling to express their emerging independence without being labeled as defiant or problematic, offering a window into the complex emotional landscape of teenage development. Through relatable scenarios and honest dialogue, the story validates the experience of young people who feel their intentions are constantly misinterpreted by parents and teachers. This coming-of-age journey tackles the universal challenge of finding one's voice while maintaining family connections.

What sets this young adult novel apart is its balanced perspective that acknowledges both the teenager's internal world and the legitimate concerns of caring adults, making it equally valuable for parents seeking to understand their children better. The protagonist's journey toward self-advocacy and clearer communication provides meaningful insights for readers navigating similar family dynamics and identity formation challenges. Teen readers will appreciate seeing their experiences reflected with such authenticity, while parents may gain new understanding of what lies beneath seemingly difficult behavior. This thoughtful exploration of intergenerational communication ultimately builds bridges of empathy between young adults and the people who care about them most.

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